Does Everyone Who Needs Help DESERVE Help? Learn When To Say NO Without Guilt

Does Everyone Who Needs Help DESERVE Help? Learn When To Say NO Without Guilt

SMART LIFE SERIES: Learn When & How To Say No Without Guilt. 

Coming soon: This article is part 1 of a new series and will be written specifically for Therapists, Healers, Psychics, Coaches, care givers and all other professions serving the masses. I will explain common mistakes you make, how to avoid them and work smarter! We can all agree that the world needs to heal and evolve now more than ever, there simply is not enough time or energy to waste on Perpetual Self SaboteursPerpetual Victims, Drama Addicts, Abusive Clients, Toxic Manipulators, and “Gimme Gimme” Free Loads. 

Time to get super selective and tough, lets create a healthier social work culture and help those who DESERVE it!

Powerful lasting impact starts with you and me, Compassion Fatigue is a real problem today because when those who devote their lives to caring for society’s ills are burned out and abused, none wins and the world goes backwards as we are seeing happen now. Our society can not afford to loose anymore healers, therapists, teachers and caretakers due to burn out and compassion fatigue. We can not as a society allow those who simply refuse to grown up, to continue to excessively burden, exploit or abuse our few and far in between humanitarians. It is no longer an issue of a few bad apples ruining it for the rest… I have been witnessing a growing phenomenon of a few good apples in a sea of rotten ones. That is the norm now!  Being a weak adult with very infantile, self absorbed tendencies is actually a choice, and it is one that should never be rewarded. We are neither help them nor the rest of society by coddling their infantile weakness!

If you are a caregiver in any capacity and found this article, my hope is for you to understand the problem and apply a number tried and tested solutions I offer. If you suffer from Compassion Fatigue or Burnout please look for the resources I will include at the end of the article. You DO matter, you ARE more important, much needed and appreciated!

Please remember that you are not alone, caring for others as a profession is tough and demands respect and fairness to be worthwhile to anyone including the receivers of any form of care, emotional, mental, physical of spiritual. You are also not alone in feeling like our society is regressed so far backwards that most adults in it behave like they are still in puberty. I can not even compare them to children because that would be an insult to children, nor to animals because that would be an insult to them as well. No other species has produced and fostered this much weakness, excessive selfishness and appalling immorality. Some of you reading this are Baby boomers, while I know many outstanding people from the boomer generation, please pay attention because your grandkids tell me how embarrassed they are by much of what you do and say to them. They can not relate to you at all, and want nothing to do with the the continuation of the a very toxic paradigm they inherited from previous generations especially your own. This is not only a big social problem, it is most definitely a generational one, because your offspring and their offspring have been left with much much less than you when you were their age!

 

Stay tunes for the rest

 

By |2021-01-26T14:21:24-06:00January 13th, 2021|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Does Everyone Who Needs Help DESERVE Help? Learn When To Say NO Without Guilt

About the Author:

I have always been spiritual and in tune with the non physical aspect of the earthly existence. I believe the universe has a way of guiding us forward throughout our lives, with the help of guides, synchronicity, and our innate knowing also called intuition. I was blessed with the gifts of Telepathy, Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience among other Psychic Abilities. I combine these tools with my life experience, and the channeled wisdom of our benevolent guides on the other side of the veil to bring answers, clarity and direction. Channeling the higher realms has been the greatest source of joy and life transforming experiences for both my clients and myself. I make the most of each interaction with both client and guide. My focus is to bring forth awareness, awakening, empowerment and healing through channeling. I am here to teach you how to tune into higher consciousness, reclaim your God given power, and attain self mastery!